The First Time

Remember the first time you held a boys (girls) hand? Remember how you analyzed every detail of that hand and hung onto it for dear life? You committed it to memory so that even when you were apart you'd still feel his hand in yours.

First kiss. Do you remember the butterflies of anticipation because you thought it might happen? Was it like that or were you completely taken by surprise and it was over in a flash- leaving you in a bit of jubilant shock?

First lover. Was he anything like you'd imagined? Do you even remember? Was it forgettable? Regrettable experience? Do women ever really have a good first time? Maybe the mental aspect is wonderful but good sex rarely happens right out of the gate.

As you get older those little *firsts* no longer seem like a big deal. How many couples skip over the handholding & other little pleasures after they've been together for awhile- it's kind of sad, isn't it?

Now as grown ups we hear of couples hooking up and it's no big deal- but remember when it was?