Of All People to Forget A Face!
She's nobody's girlfriend...She doesn't behave like one. She's something else.....
Well. I can't be offended or even slightly jolted by such a remark, because it's true. I am nobody's girlfriend- by choice. Serious relationships just don't work for me at this point. I can't give the amount of time & energy to make anything really work on all levels. I am married to my job. Hopefully not forever, but for right now that's how it needs to be. I know what I need & what I need to be able to give when in a serious relationship in order to make it feel good. I don't have the time to devote & so trying to fumble through and take what I need- it's just not fair to do to a man. A good man. I hope within a few more years I'll have proved myself enough to balance my life out a bit more.
That doesn't mean I'm lonely. I have friendly relationships. There's only ever one man in the picture at a time- if at all. I don't need someone chasing after me but it is nice to know once or twice a week someone will be there to talk to. Dinner. Conversation. Drinks. More conversation. Sex. More Sex. Go home.
That can be a really good thing when you both are honest about only being capable of that much. Safe & secure without the drama.
I'm stunned that she doesn't remember me. I never would have believed a change in haircolor would confuse her!
Well. I can't be offended or even slightly jolted by such a remark, because it's true. I am nobody's girlfriend- by choice. Serious relationships just don't work for me at this point. I can't give the amount of time & energy to make anything really work on all levels. I am married to my job. Hopefully not forever, but for right now that's how it needs to be. I know what I need & what I need to be able to give when in a serious relationship in order to make it feel good. I don't have the time to devote & so trying to fumble through and take what I need- it's just not fair to do to a man. A good man. I hope within a few more years I'll have proved myself enough to balance my life out a bit more.
That doesn't mean I'm lonely. I have friendly relationships. There's only ever one man in the picture at a time- if at all. I don't need someone chasing after me but it is nice to know once or twice a week someone will be there to talk to. Dinner. Conversation. Drinks. More conversation. Sex. More Sex. Go home.
That can be a really good thing when you both are honest about only being capable of that much. Safe & secure without the drama.
I'm stunned that she doesn't remember me. I never would have believed a change in haircolor would confuse her!
posted by Isabella Manning at 3:56 AM
13 Comments:
Well said!!
MERRY CHRISTMAS, Isabella!!
Very well said. You know what you can handle and there's no reason not to have it!
THAT'S who you are....Well, small world isn't it?
I should have remembered your name...Silly me....
After all, dear. You are probably the furthest thing from my mind....
Actually, the hair color...It did throw me. Made you look, older. And not in a good way.
Nicole: catty, just cos it took you a while, tut tut
You are probably the furthest thing from my mind....
the hair color...It did throw me. Made you look, older. And not in a good way.
I think there is a certain detective that would strongly disagree.
You mean he's actually aware of your hair color...Natural or otherwise....
I'm surprised he doesn't catch a glare from your forehead...
I wouldn't have thought you of all people would be worried about superficial things like that.
Besides, all that botox can't be good for you....I suppose there is an up-side to it....
At least when you're blind-sided...You can't show it. Leaves us all to guess.
Was that "catty" again....Oh, yes. That's right...I don't care.
Welcome aboard and well said..
Merry Christmas Isabella..
hugs Janice
girls, girls, you seem to be forgetting one thing ......
What, that jello catfights solve everything?
Well, they don't. Just almost everything. But go ahead and try.
Mike, you're a perv.
No, Mikey is a prevert. He always beats the other perverts to the party. ;) Welcome, Isabella. And you people shouldn't insult cats that way. She's more reptilian, and cold and scaley, sleek and only focused on fixing the next need. Food, sex, money, security...oops haven't gotten to that one yet have you Nicole?
awww .. I hope you find the right balance to fit your lifestyle..
hugs Janice
and ditto to what Alex said.
HELLO long lost twin.
don't let her get to you--she's full of hot air. pretty sure.
and oh ha ha ha Mike.
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